BREATHE

WE HAVE SOME TOP TIPS TO HELP YOU PLANNING YOUR SPECIAL DAY.

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HERE AT YOUR WEDDINGOLOGY WE ARE ALWAYS SEARCHING FOR IDEAS AND INSPIRATION TO CREATE THE MOST PERFECT WEDDING DAY TO FIT YOUR NEEDS. THE FOLLOWING TOP TIPS ARE AIMED TO HELP YOU ALONG THE WAY BUT WE’D LOVE TO HEAR YOUR THOUGHTS AND STORIES TOO.

LET US HELP YOU …

DREAM IT ...

MAKE THE WHOLE DAY ABOUT YOU.
DON’T BE DRAWN IN BY TRADITIONS AND THINGS YOU THINK YOU HAVE TO DO. RECOGNISE YOUR OWN NEEDS AND MAKE SURE YOU DO THE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY.
THIS SPECIAL DAY CAN BE AS SIMPLE AS THE TWO OF YOU COMMITTING TO A LIFETIME OF GORGEOUSNESS TOGETHER OR A HUGE AFFAIR FULL OF FUN. IT’S YOUR DAY, YOUR WAY!
THE SUPPLIERS ON THIS SITE WILL FILL YOU WITH IDEAS AND OFFER SUPPORT IN ANY AREAS OF YOUR DAY THAT YOU MIGHT BE DAUNTED BY, SO FEEL FREE TO TALK TO THEM ABOUT THE CHOICES YOU ARE MAKING AND WHY THEY ARE IMPORTANT TO YOU.
THERE ARE BLOG POSTS AND IDEAS FOR YOU THROUGHOUT THIS SITE.
WE’D LOVE TO HEAR YOUR IDEAS TOO, SO FEEL FREE TO SHARE.
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PLAN IT ...

IF YOU ARE LIVING IN A NEURODIVERGENT WORLD, PLANNING MAY NOT BE YOUR FAVOURITE ACTIVITY, BUT YOU CAN POP SOME THINGS IN PLACE THAT CAN HELP.
BE UPFRONT WITH YOUR PARTNER AND YOUR SUPPLIERS AS TO HOW YOUR TRAITS MAY EFFECT THE PROCESS AND MAYBE COME UP WITH A ‘SAFE WORD’ FOR WHEN YOU SIMPLY NEED TO TAKE A STEP BACK.
DECIDE ON A WEDDING DATE FIRST … THIS WILL HELP YOU PRIORITISE THINGS EASIER ONCE YOU HAVE THAT DEADLINE. CONSIDER HIRING A WEDDING PLANNER, BUT IF THIS IS TOTALLY OUT OF BUDGET, SPEAK TO YOUR MOST ‘A’ TYPE FRIEND … THEY WILL BE TOTALLY ‘MONICA’ (FRIENDS) AND WILL NO DOUBT DON THE CLIP BOARD AND HEAD SET AT THE DROP OF A HAT.THE SUPPLIERS ON THIS SITE ARE HERE TO HELP WITH ALL OF THESE THINGS. FIND YOUR PERFECT PERSON OR COMPANY IN OUR SAFE SPACE DIRECTORY. THERE IS INSPIRATION AND IDEAS FOR PLANNING YOUR DAY ON OUR BLOG TOO. SO HERE’S TO HAPPY PLANNING.
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THE ACTUAL DAY ...

AFTER ALL OF THAT PLANNING AND THE BUILD UP IT MAY STILL SEEM DAUNTING AS YOU START THE ACTUAL WEDDING DAY.
REMEMBER THAT YOU HAVE MADE THE DECISIONS THAT HAVE LED YOU TO THIS SPECIAL DAY AND THERE ARE THINGS IN PLACE TO HELP YOU ENJOY EVERY BIT.
AFTER ALL, YOU HAVE PLANNED YOUR DAY TO SUIT YOU.
TRY TO MAKE SURE THERE ARE QUIET TIMES IF YOU NEED THEM.
ENSURE THERE ARE CALM, RELAXED AREAS AT THE VENUE YOU HAVE CHOSEN SO YOU CAN ESCAPE TO THEM IF YOU FEEL OVERWHELMED OR NEED FIVE MINUTES.
ALSO REMEMBER, THE PEOPLE WHO SURROUND YOU AS THE DAY PROGRESSES LOVE AND SUPPORT YOU (OTHERWISE, THEY WOULDN’T HAVE MADE THE GUEST LIST!) OH, AND REMEMBER TO BREATHE.
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